Men, if you’re looking for a way to improve your love life, bring back the romance, or get your sex life sizzling, try planning a beach vacation. Women love to go on romantic vacations to the beach. Here are some tricks to make it easy and affordable.

Determine when you can both go on a trip. Addressing this topic with her will excite her. She says something like, “I’m planning a trip to Florida so we can have some quiet time alone. I’m thinking the first week of September. Would that work for you?” What is important in this initial discussion is that
1. She will be surprised that you are planning a vacation.
2. She will be impressed that you thought of it without her.
3. She will be flattered that you want to spend time with her.
4. She will be surprised that you thought about a date in advance because this shows that you are serious, that you take control of the planning and think of her romantically when she has no idea.

This initial planning conversation will immediately score big points for your partner. You have not only made her feel important, you have initiated a very romantic mutual interest to share with her.

The next step is to plan the location of your beach vacation. Choose a beach where the two of you have privacy and avoid the crowds. The best beaches are in Florida, which is also generally convenient for cheap flights. From almost anywhere in the country, you can fly to Orlando for less than two hundred dollars. At that point, you can rent a car and drive another hour and a half to Siesta Key, Longboat Key, or Anna Maria Island to stay for a week. There is a closer airport to fly into, in Sarasota, which is only about twenty-five minutes from the beach rentals. Flying into Sarasota may be worth the few extra dollars. Now that you’ve chosen the location, think about your budget. The most affordable and romantic options will be vacation rentals. Vacation rentals include beach houses, cabins, condominiums, and houses near the beach. If you can’t afford a beach house, that’s okay, because Longboat Key, Siesta Key, and Anna Maria Island are small, narrow strips of land called barrier islands that have the Gulf of Mexico and Sarasota Bay on one side. Secondly. They are so narrow that you can easily walk to any beach spot you want or rent a bike. Some vacation rentals even include bicycles that the owners allow guests to use. It may be cheaper to rent a house with a private pool that is within walking distance of the beach than to get a condo on the beach. I highly recommend making your planning easier by contacting a specialist who will narrow down the options by date and budget for you. The best company for this is Coast 2 Coast Vacation Rentals as they only have experts in the areas they represent.

They also work with just about every vacation rental available in that area, bringing together hundreds of companies that you would have to call individually. Ask the agent to email you their options, and you narrow them down to the top three. Once you have the top three options, it’s time to have a romantic conversation with your partner. Set up a calendar of her vacation date with her. Set aside a specific time to look at the options and share what draws you to each vacation rental. Discuss what you think are the benefits and drawbacks of each individual unit. Women love pretty things, so she may be more attracted to a rental because of the interior decor than you are. Let her have that.

Let her make that decision, because if she feels like she’s surrounded by luxury, she’ll relax and enjoy the trip more. Women need to feel relaxed to enjoy sex and romance, and since their most intimate moments alone will likely be inside the vacation rental, let her choose. The benefits of this planning date are

1. She’ll be impressed that you’ve narrowed down the options to three and are taking full responsibility for the work part of planning the trip.
2. He’ll love that you want his opinion, and he’ll feel special that you don’t argue about what he chooses.
3. She will feel special because you are listening to her and talking to her
4. She will be excited by the romance that builds up on the trip, and when romantic ideas build up in a woman’s mind, it makes her more interested in sex.
5. He’ll feel like you’re a hero, or at least see you as competent at planning, and gain new respect for you.
6. She will tell all her friends what a great guy you are planning this trip and they will all be jealous. Women share their experiences with each other and the approval of their friends can make them proud to have you as a partner and more sexually expressive.

Once you’ve made your decision, call the agent, make reservations, and start planning activities. There are so many fun things to do on a trip that build and strengthen a relationship. Visit romantic spots like the Mixon Fruit Farm in Bradenton, Florida. Plan to cook a romantic meal in your vacation rental with fresh local fish and produce. Have a picnic or barbecue outside and enjoy the pool. Lie on the beach and then stroll through the quaint shopping districts. Be sure to set aside a few dollars specifically to purchase that beautiful item you fall in love with during your trip. Surprise her with that and she’ll never forget how romantic it was. It may be what she appreciates the most because you cared enough to get it for her on this wonderfully romantic vacation. If you need additional help planning activities, please contact your reservation agent for coupons, links and tips. Another great place to look for ideas is Trip Advisor. Trip Advisor has travel guides that you may find helpful.

Also look at Virtual Tourist, you can post questions on their forum and get specific answers from people who have been to the area.

Remember, planning a special getaway together can be just as romantic as the trip, sometimes even more so because it helps build a bond between you. Women love it when men want romance as much as they do. Women love it when men make an effort to do something special in the relationship. Take the time to do this for your special loved one and you’ll be glad you did. It’s just an easy way to help bring interest and romance into your sex life.