A bone of contention in many relationships falls within the area of communication. Many women know exactly what I mean. You start dating a fantastic guy, he seems almost perfect in every way, but he can’t seem to pick up the phone to call you. You end up being the one calling him and that leads you to feel a bit neglected. Resentment builds over time and eventually you and your boyfriend have a massive argument about the fact that you have to make all the calls. Is there a simpler solution to this problem? Is there a way to get your boyfriend to call more often? Surprisingly there is. Any woman can do only one thing to accelerate her boyfriend’s desire to call her. It is much easier than you think.
What you have to do to get your boyfriend to call more often is call him less. Everything is a question of balance. When one person in the relationship assumes any role, he becomes the one who will always assume that role. It’s true for just about everything, including being the one who takes care of housework, the one who drives, or the one who makes the call. Even if your boyfriend says he will call, he will leave you that job if you have shown in the past that you will call before him. When any man knows that the woman they are involved with will take the brunt of the job, regardless of what it is, they will let him do it. This is certainly true in the case of calls. If you are impatient and he has told you that he will call you in the past and you do not wait for him to do so, eventually he will not even make the effort.
Men are more intrigued by women who strive for it. This may seem like more suitable advice for your mother’s or grandmother’s generation, but it works incredibly well now, too. If you don’t give him a chance to chase you, he will eventually lose interest in you. If you want him to call more, call him less. Also, don’t answer each and every call. Allow him to leave you a message once in a while and then take the time to call him back. Doing this will show her that you are not sitting by the phone, anxiously waiting for her call. When you let a man chase you, he will love you more and more.