Kissing is one of the most important aspects of making love and can often make or break a relationship.

A kiss is often the first intimate physical contact you have with a potential new lover or partner. From a kiss, a person can often tell what kind of lover you are or at least some say they can. Some people can reach orgasm by kissing alone. Not wanting to be kissed by your partner can be a sign of problems in the relationship. If a kiss feels bad, many women just say goodbye to the guy.

Unfair you say. Well, maybe not. From a tantric perspective, kissing is a powerful way to wake up, wake up and excite your lover. Becoming a great kisser is really becoming an artist with your tongue and your mouth.

Now I know this may seem easy enough. I mean, after all, most of you have been kissing in one form or another for years and there are many variations on this theme. But what I am referring to here is the art of kissing to release the nectar that resides within the subtle tantric body as well as the electrical current that runs from the mouth to other erogenous zones.

Making kissing a daily ritual will enliven your relationship and reignite your passion. There are many different types of kisses: slow, wet, fast, deep, hard, soft, choppy and then there are tantric kisses. Kiss your lover at least twice a day and experiment with these different types of kisses. (Dr. Ava Cadell)

1. The tantric kiss – In this kiss you are breathing the breath of your partner. They are not using tongues or any movement of any kind, but are sharing their breath together. This kiss is very intimate. What could be more intimate than sharing your lover’s breath? This kiss can bring you into a state of harmony and flow with your partner. You forget time and space and just inhale and exhale with each other. To start, sit down Yab yum or lie face down facing each other. The legs can be rolled up together or in whatever way is most comfortable. Then, just by touching your lips, exhale into your lover’s mouth while inhaling your breath. Then your lover exhales while you inhale. It may take some practice to get the flow moving easily, but once accomplished, it is truly a kiss from heaven. Stay in touch with your lover by maintaining eye contact at least once in a while. I have found that I usually close my eyes and get lost in the rhythm of our breathing.

2.Butterfly kissing – Begin by gently and gently kissing your partner’s face, exploring his chin, cheeks, nose, eyelids, and forehead with your lips. Take your time and build up the energy. Like the wings of a butterfly, your lips move over your lover’s face. Gently kiss your partner’s lips. Take your tongue and gently brush over them. Then gently kiss your partner’s lips from one corner to the other, sweet and flickering.

3. Libation kiss – To release the nectar from your partner’s subtle body, take your tongue and gently rub it along the inside of the upper lip. Nectar is not saliva, but it is warm and watery and stimulates the release of a ‘sexual mist’ that spills through the body from the crown of the head or higher. chakra. In tantra, remember that you are not only working on the physical body, but also on the subtle and energy bodies.

Four. The slow and deep kiss – Now put your heart and body in a slow kiss alternating the pressure from soft to deep with your mouth slightly open.

5. The bite kiss – Kiss your partner and gently bite his lower lip. This will send an electric shock directly to a woman’s nipples or yoni and a man’s lingam.

6. Sucking kiss – Wrap your lips around your lover’s tongue and suck passionately, alternating your speed from slow to fast.

7. Exploratory kiss – Explore the inside of your lover’s mouth with your tongue making it run in small and large circles.

8. Quick silver kiss – Move your tongue in and out of your lover’s mouth quickly and then slowly as if you were having sex. Remember to use your whole body and make all those wonderful love sounds.

9. Melted kiss – Start by kissing gently. Then relax your lips, open your mouth a little and go deeper. Allow your mouth to melt with your partner’s and your tongue to relax. This type of kiss is really my favorite. No one is directing it, and you and your partner can flow with each other.

Remember to be creative and find out if you like to taste chocolate, liquor or fruit when kissing, it can be a bit messy but so delicious …

The art of kissing takes a lot, a lot of practice. So make time with your lover or partner to kiss often. Kiss when you walk down the street together. Kiss when you wait in the elevator. Kiss when you walk the dog, cook, wash, when you first wake up, and when you go to sleep. Hands-on hands-on practice. Try all of the above and come up with some of your own kissing techniques. And remember to have fun.

If you want to study the art of kissing further, why not try a kissing class at Loveolog University?