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PUA Texting: How to Engage Women

Recently, I was browsing a Seddit thread when I came across a question about PUA texting. What I learned is that even in 2014, men still fear texting +. Makes sense, all that amazing connection you had in person is now limited to little 0’s and 1’s flying around on your smartphone. To say that text is a limited medium would be an understatement. To say that he would be a game killer is to rationalize your lack of understanding.

Texting isn’t really about making you like you, you should have done it before you broke up when you first met *. In this article I am going to explain why we use text games, what their purpose is, and give you examples of texts that you can use to relive a dying conversation.

Let’s talk about how to text women and keep them engaged.

The three elements of a solid text game

Before I even start texting, I want to take a moment to acknowledge the three elements for the best possible results. These are:

  • Sexual tension

  • Connection

  • Appreciation and recognition (qualification)

These are the pillars for her to want to maintain the interaction, with the sexual tension turning her on, the connection making her deeper than the surface attraction, and you demonstrating higher value by focusing on who she is, not how she looks.

Mastering them is beyond the scope of this article, but I guarantee that if you don’t receive the texts, then you are out of alignment in one of these three areas.

Time and frequency

Time is extremely important in our modern age, wait too long and you will forget it. Get in people’s faces and nobody wants to have anything to do with you. The sexier a girl is, the more things she has. You have to go straight into his life and become a fixture of it quickly.

Send a text message the next day, waiting three days for those who are too needy. Your subsequent text messages can match the speed of your text messages, this is an easy rule to make sure you are calibrated. If you and she text back and forth frequently, you can call her and stop texting to make an appointment.

How much and dead air

A lot of guys get stuck in the more is better paradigm. When we text, we should aim for quality content over quantity. Sending too many text messages makes you too available, decreases the shortage. Instead, consider stopping texting at a high point and hanging out for a few hours. You got busy and had other things to do besides text him.

Make yourself valuable and scarce and she will want to hang out with you just to get your attention. That is a powerful position for you.

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Truly, this is where most men go wrong, we should avoid boring conversations and keep them emotionally attractive, we talked about taking care of the three main elements before getting the number before. If you did, then all you need to do is keep her emotionally engaged. Their emotions tied to your meeting fade without that emotional commitment. The same thing happens to all of us, over time we retain memories, but feelings go away and women trust their feelings.

The quickest way to start a conversation is to tease her, accuse her of something silly, tell her that she will ask you to dinner to show that chivalry is not dead. The provocation doesn’t matter, all that matters is how attractive you are and that emotional stimulation is the lubricant of the conversation.

Once you understand that you can switch between teasing, being sexual, and playing HARD with her. The greater the range of emotions you feel, the more compelling you will become. This can be a scary process if you don’t know what you are doing. Sometimes I have to fight to make my students cool because they worry so much about messing it up:

Dave: Text her: “I just met your twin.”

Student: She replied with … “Haha no way, where were you?”

Dave: Good. Say, “That would be a revelation, I’m pretty sure you’re the evil one too.”

Student: She hasn’t responded yet.

Dave: Okay, just wait.

Student: OK, she just texted “Shh, don’t tell anyone.”

Dave: Lol. Good response from you.

Student: Yes … what is my next move sensei?

Dave: Thinking about it

Dave: I’m thinking “You know? It’s probably because your last boyfriend didn’t hit you enough.”

Student: Do I say that ?!

Student She will think that all I want to do is sleep with her.

Dave: Yes, we want to see how you will respond to sexual texts. It is a good indicator of where you are.

Dave: To be fair, you do.

Student: No, I’m looking for a girlfriend.

Dave: Ah, I should have explained it. The more you like a girl, the faster you should sleep with her.

Student: Lol.

Student: Okay, she responded with, “Really? I’ve found that I respond better with rewards than punishments.”

Student 😕

Student: Can I still ask if we are going to host Pad Thai tonight?

Dave: No!

Dave: give him a call

Dave: Love it

Dave: Then ask her out

Student: Call her ?!

Student: Did not answer

Dave: Ah. Shame. Give it a few hours and then we’ll start texting again.

Student: She wrote: “I am finishing a job right now. Can I call you in a moment?”

Student: And I’m going to play basketball and have lunch.

Dave: You can leave it alone and we’ll re-evaluate it after lunch.

Student: OK ty

Student: OK, should I text him?

Dave: Yes. Tell her that you are done playing ball and that you can call her when she is available.

Student: Hey, she called me and I’ll pick her up at 7!

I love this example because it shows that students are afraid of ‘making’ the wrong move ‘, forcing them to be just like any other kid. Most guys bore her to death, they stay in a very small area of ​​behavior, all predictable. We want to be different, we want to be a challenge.

The last thing I want to say about the content is keep it short, if you can say it in a word or two, keep it. Writing long messages shows that you are more involved than her. KISS – Keep it simple and silly.

Text openers

As promised, here is a list of simple openers that you can use to get a girl to text you, credit is given to whom the credit is due:

  1. I just met your twin … (Credit Savoy)

  2. I found a rose on my door … you?

  3. The police are looking for a handsome boy and a retard … They grabbed me, grab their crayons and run!

  4. This is your phone company, the vibration feature is not designed to be used that.

  5. I just want you to know, I used to be modest … but now that I’ve worked on it, I’m perfect.

These five should start to work and if you have any of your good ones, leave them in the comments below, we’d love to share and grow our list of awesome messages and keep men from ever dreading texting again.

Dates or Day 2!

Remember that the goal is to see her in person, always text, and move things forward from that perspective. Whenever you are not sure how to proceed, remember that you want to meet with her. Think about what would bring you closer to that goal and Never Send an unconvincing text, you have no reason to. If it takes hours to write a good piece, wait three hours.

You will get many more quotes that way.

* I know that on the field girls are dragged or have to leave, but these should be the exceptions, not the rule.

+ Seddit has a list of good text game resources HERE

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