Spiritual Relationships: Five Reasons They Turn Bad
Bad relationships are all too common. At first, it often appears to be very promising, but then falls apart. It’s a mystery why some relationships turn sour, until you consider the spiritual side of things.
Mystics suggest that life is largely about spiritual lessons. While relationships may not always get you what you want on an ego level, spiritual growth is often part of the plan.
Here are five spiritual and worldly reasons why people experience terrible relationships.
Past Life Connections and Karma
The laws of reincarnation and karma lead to specific life experiences and many of them tend to be relationship oriented. By the way, although many people misuse the word karma, it is often related to reincarnation. Past life ties, including toxic ones, create current life ties. They have been together before and sometimes they need to balance the scales.
That unexplained initial draw may include hidden karma waiting to be played out. Karma, which can also be good, can be immensely complicated and is often more than just “you left him in a past life, so now he leaves you.” The experience can be for many reasons, and you have probably been together before in several lifetimes.
A shared higher purpose, like having a child or a job that will have a significant impact on each other, could be part of your relationship plan. Once you really get to know each other, what if the compatibility is terrible? On a soul level, they both knew before they incarnated that their combined energies were needed to accomplish the goal and that it would be worth smiling and holding on until the mission was accomplished.
Programming and problems of early life
Although early life experiences and traumas certainly affect later life relationships and the reasons for these may be considered more mundane than spiritual, our findings show that core childhood events and circumstances (including the good and the bad) bad) are often contracted and agreed upon by our parents. souls before birth.
“If you have a smothering parent, the apparent effect it can have on a child is to give them, in equal doses, a sense of too much self-esteem, because they’re mommy’s little princess or prince, and low self-esteem. It affects future relationships.”
Fear of being alone and personal time
Many people dislike the idea of being single so much that they start a relationship just to avoid loneliness. Everyone’s personal time is different, and sometimes their collective time is not conducive to life’s love relationships, but rather to work, family, or other concerns. When you have a horrible moment in love life, reject the signs that it is not the time to have good experiences in love life now and force a relationship, you could find yourself in a mess. It’s like trying to plant your garden in winter.
“If you feel lonely when you’re alone, you’re in bad company.”
Just as you can get over a friendship, it’s possible to get over a love relationship, especially when you consider how people change at different rates and for different reasons. Lifelong mutual compatibility in all areas of life, including sex, is not as common as people want to believe. Resist natural change and unhappiness will result, so it pays to go with the flow and accept that sometimes circumstances change.
“We are very reluctant to change, although we know that all things change, and especially our relationships are determined to change.”
If your partner is detrimental to your well-being and the bond cannot be repaired, it’s time to end it. However, if the connection is relatively symbiotic, be wary of ending it for the allure of a new romance like those portrayed in Hollywood movies.
It seems that refusing to accept your partner as they are and comparing your relationship to the ideal relationship is a widespread problem. It is easy to find fault with this kind of thinking. But no one is perfect, and the perfect relationship is an illusion. Consider yourself very lucky if you are in a mutually rewarding connection, and even luckier if you are humble enough to appreciate personal differences and strong enough to love unconditionally.
“There is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the best of us, that it is in none of our interests to find fault with the rest of us.”
James Trulow Adams