Why we watch sports (and it’s not what you think)
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Why we watch sports (and it’s not what you think)

Whether you believe it or not, we like to watch sports for very different reasons than you think. In fact, the real things that make us like sports are in each person, whether we like sports or not. What things can we learn about human nature simply by observing our fascination with competition? The answers might surprise you. The answers are not only interesting in themselves, but they can also help you in other ways.

To be sure, there are some pretty simple and obvious explanations for why we like sports. Sport teaches us about loyalty, perseverance and honor. It gives us a way to bond, it’s cathartic and we identify with teams and players. We live vicariously through the players we watch. We have our favorite players, and there are teams that we’ve grown up supporting because our brother or dad used to love them, and now we still support them today. Or we can follow a sport that we used to play when we were children.

But there are also some deeper, more powerful and fascinating reasons.

We’re all just big kids

Whether you believe it or not, all adults are just big kids. We are all big kids. We simply hide our true feelings and thoughts with highly developed skills (or at least most of us do). We still want to belong or be accepted by our peers, we all still want to be loved, we still feel emotional pain, and we still find ourselves giving in to immediate gratification when we know better. And yes, some of us still lie and cheat in our normal everyday lives.

We certainly hide things better and often successfully ‘act’ like we don’t care about belonging, love, pain, or whatever. Deep down we are a little more mature and wiser, but basically we are still children. We may not say it out loud anymore, but sometimes we still think, “That’s not fair!” We prefer to play than work. Some may argue, depending on whether they urinate standing up or sitting down, that this is especially true for men. Perhaps that is why there are more men who love sports than women.

You see, watching sports gives us a perfect little microcosm of life, safe and secure, in black and white. Following a player, team or game allows us to experience ups and downs and a whole range of emotions, just like in real life, but without affecting us.

And unlike life, sports and games are generally fair! There are rules and a crystalline framework or paradigm that all participants and viewers know. There are never any wrenches thrown in a sports game, like the rules that change mid-game, for example. If the rules are broken, the violator is penalized. Sometimes they don’t run away frustratingly like in real life.

In the end, there is an ambiguous winner and loser. We come to pretend that the game we are watching is life, where everything is perfectly fair, everyone plays by the rules, and everything makes sense.

Children tend to think of things in much more black and white terms. Only by living and maturing do we realize that all of life is a series of grays. But we all yearn for a simpler and easier life. When things are only seen in black or white, things seem simpler and easier, but life is not so clear.

This helps explain why politicians who divide their platform into simple sound bites and uncomplicated terms often do better than politicians who talk about life as it really is, a complex and interrelated world of nuance.

Watching sports allows us a temporarily safe and socially acceptable way to be more like our true nature, and our true nature is terribly childish. So the next time you’re dealing with a difficult person, remember that he’s just a big kid, just like you and everyone else, and maybe that knowledge will help you deal with him a little easier.

What do watching a horror movie and sports have in common?

Have you ever wondered why so many people, including perhaps you, enjoy watching horror movies so much? They provide a safe way for people to experience high levels of suspension without actually being in any real danger. Sports can be the same way. Again, watching sports allows us to enter a perfect world where the cliffhanger outcome has no bearing on our real lives (unless you have a nasty problem with sports betting, of course).

People love drama, suspense and resolution, which are inherent elements of sports. In fact, the closer the game is, the more suspension there is. If we identify with a player and he wins, we rejoice vicariously at the success. However, if the player’s team loses, we also feel the loss a bit. But our lives are not affected. And sportscasters usually just add to the drama and suspense.

A sports game is a kind of story. There is a beginning and an end. There is a protagonist (your team) and an antagonist (the other team). There is a scene and a setting, the stadium at noon, and there is a plot, which is the action. Only after the games are over, and depending on whether or not your team won, is it decided to call it a fairy tale ending or a tragedy.

reptilian brain and war

Whether you want to believe it or not, humans are much closer to nature and the animal world than most people like to think. We are not only close to nature; we are part of it! Evolutionarily speaking, we are much closer in time to our non-intelligent animal ancestors than to a sentient species transcended apart from nature. Our behavior is much more guided by our “primitive brain” than by our more recently developed neocortex, which is the seat of our intelligence. The primitive brain, or lower brain function, deals with fight or flight behavior, hunger, fear, and sex, among other things.

A common, albeit misconception, is that the human brain is the result of billions of years of evolution. Our primitive or reptilian part of the brain is that old, but our brain’s extra-large neocortex, the thing that separates us from other mammals, emerged only a couple of million years ago, a mere drop in the evolutionary bucket. The neocortex hasn’t had much time to develop, so our primitive brain plays an important role in our lives.

Our basic fight-or-flight mentality manifests itself in sports. We can relate, on a deeper, unconscious level, to the guy who runs the ball into the end zone and is chased by a pack of angry men. We can understand what it feels like to control another hockey player and slam him into the boards. Or we can sympathize with the NASCAR driver who is passed by a competitor, but speeds up and chases after him.

Our primitive desire for dominance is represented in sports. When our team wins, we experience a kind of dominance over the opposing team and their fans.

Our predatory nature is illuminated when we see a linebacker following a running back through a mass of football players, waiting for the perfect moment to attack his prey with a tackle. Seeing someone chase the man with the ball in basketball, soccer, or baseball affects us in a similar way.

Our tribal instincts are satisfied with sports. We all want to belong to something; it is a basic human need as we are such social animals. We identify with a team as our ancestors would identify with their tribe. This is especially true for modern man in the Western world, where community has taken a backseat to independence.

Our primitive warrior nature is satisfied with sports. There seems to be an innate desire for war, even in so-called “modern” man. In fact, look at the world today and how many wars there are today, and you will see how far we are from real peace. Pathetically, that last statement holds true for just about any moment in history, regardless of when you’re reading this. Again, this goes back to the fact that we are governed more by our ‘primitive’, survival-driven, fight-or-flight brain than by our reasonable and intelligent ‘modern’ brain.

Every sports game is like a small war between tribes, with an ending and a declared winner. But there is an important distinction; Unlike in war, no one has to die in sports.

One of the reasons going to a game is more exciting than watching it on TV is that it creates a kind of energy when so many people come together and support a cause. You may even like a mob mentality. We need look no further than our own stadiums where chaos has erupted in protest at a call or in celebration of a victory. Sports strongly appeal to the play and fight instincts of humans.

And since our modern lives no longer contain any real physical danger and all of our basic needs are immediately taken care of, we now have a void that must somehow be filled, our primitive brain awaits. Sports fit the bill. It gives us the illusion of reality where there are no consequences. It gives us the illusion of battle, war, victory and defeat, without the consequences. And it gives us the illusion of being children again, even if it’s all temporary.

You may not like sports at all, but we are all quite childish inside. We all year for some level of drama in our lives. And we are all constantly affected by our primitive brain. Watching sports is a great way for people to reconcile these inescapable facts.

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