3 ways to know it’s time to kiss her
That first kiss, certainly a daunting idea. The sexual tension remains there after spending time with a hot girl rather than on your first date, or even in a bar after just meeting you. I like to think of the first kiss as the key to unlocking her physical side. It’s that one action that gives you the confidence to shoot for the stars. But we’ve all experienced the moments leading up to the kiss, the twisting of our stomachs, the looping thought processes of “oh no, she might reject me!” It is exciting! And one of the most important quotes that I have heard in my day is extremely relevant when it comes to the first kiss. It is this ….
“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take”
In other words, you have the ability to saddle up and do the move! It is very rare to find a girl who is the one to take the first step. They will literally wait for you, probably even thinking in their heads, “JUST KISS ME NOW!”, And if you end up not going to kill, you will end up making you look like a man without confidence.
Timing is everything. The amazing thing about this is that she will give you a signal for when the time is right! And with the knowledge of this article, you will know exactly what to look for. So let’s start with number one …
1. She stays in her personal space a little longer than usual. This one is huge, humans as social creatures understand that some kind of personal space is needed to be comfortable. For the most part, unless it’s with someone you’re very close to, that personal space is still personal. Strange that random person walks in, scares people. But like I said, if this girl likes you and you’ve played your cards right, she will literally enter your personal space multiple times within an interaction, staying there longer than usual, waiting for you to make a move. Rather, he should move his face very close to hers to whisper something in his ear in a “loud” bar. You will feel the social tension and you will know that it is time.
2. Now number two is more of a trick that I use to test if it’s time, with amazing results. This is what I do step by step. While talking to her at a party, in a movie, or in a noisy bar, I will do this. Grab the back of her neck gently, bring your face close to hers, then slightly tilt your head to the left or right as if you are trying to whisper something into her ear. She will do one of two things, she will tilt her head back and open her eyes wide as if she doesn’t want you to kiss her, or she will relax her eyes and purse her lips a little. It’s very subtle, so keep your eyes peeled. If she does the second, after whispering something in her ear, give her a little and go for the kiss when you feel comfortable doing it. You know she wants it, she pursed her lips!
3. This is one of my favorites. In a bar, a party or a club, the dance floor is often full of people fighting each other. the sexual tension is through the roof. Perfect place to land the first kiss. This is what you should do, while dancing with her, periodically turn her so that she is facing you and gently place one of her knees between your legs. Grab her hips, move to the beat, twist her again, and repeat. After a while, turn her to face you, pull her hips inward, and watch for these signs. If he maintains strong eye contact while dancing with you, that is an important factor in determining whether it is time or not. Also, look at her lips. I know I’m going to kill when your lips are slightly puckered or slightly raised at the edges. Almost like a smile, but very subtle. Simply put, go for very attractive body language, almost as if you are asking for a kiss using only your body language. A lot of my first kisses in relationships come from the dance floor, so take advantage of it!
So there you have it. With these three easy tricks in your arsenal, you have that confidence boost you need to push yourself to the limit! Don’t be that guy who misses out on an incredible possible relationship with someone you had a good connection with, just out of fear!