There’s an exciting new approach to getting the things we want most in our lives that many of you may have heard of by now: the law of attraction.
The Law of Attraction, made famous by the book The Secret, is based on the premise that like attracts like. It simply says that you attract into your life situations, people, events, and circumstances that are aligned with your thinking, beliefs, and expectations. Your dominant thoughts will find a way to manifest themselves; you attract everything you think about. Therefore, focusing on the things you want and reinforcing these thoughts with focused positive emotions, such as excitement and gratitude, will in turn manifest them in your life. Part of the technique also includes visualization: storyboards of the things we want to attract into our lives as if we already have them, and thinking about them in the present tense every day. This serves to reprogram our current paradigms of what is possible, as our minds tend to want to focus on the limitation.
Why not use these techniques, which have been quite effective for many people, to make yourself more attractive to women?
Start by using visualization techniques, such as imagining yourself being accosted by women wherever you go. Catch yourself walking down the street or in a grocery store, and an attractive woman asks you for directions or the time with a smile, which then leads to a conversation and ends with the exchange of phone numbers. Or you can use another environment like the gym. See yourself working out, when you notice an attractive woman continually looking at you from across the room. When you are done with your workout, this woman approaches you and you end up having drinks with her right after. The scenarios are endless. Use your imagination and always focus on the result you want.
Repetition is key to reprogramming your mind. You may want to look in the mirror every day and tell yourself how irresistible you are to women. Repeat this process every day, the more you repeat it the more your subconscious will believe it and cause an alignment to occur between your conscious and subconscious minds. This alignment is essential to prevent one from contradicting or doubting the other, since otherwise it would sabotage your results.
Think NOW, because your subconscious only operates in the present. Hope these women are in the process of showing up in your life NOW. When the expectation is there, you are preparing for its manifestation. Don’t worry about the details of how, when and where. These are irrelevant to you and should be left up to the Universe to discover. The Universe will work in the most efficient way possible so that the results happen in a very haphazard and synchronous way. Use phrases like “I’m sexy and attractive to women.” Or try: “I always find lots of women who are attracted to me wherever I go.” “The women are excited to meet me.” “I’m very popular with women.” The more you incorporate the present tense into your affirmations, the more successful they tend to be. With this, you set up the universe to create reality in the now, rather than a future that may never come.
According to the Law of Attraction, DESIRE is the key to manifesting what we want. Within the seed of your desire is everything necessary for it to flourish to its fullness; and the Law of Attraction is the engine that does the job. Your job is simply to have the expectation, the desire. And the most effective way to establish your intentions and desires in your own subconscious and in the universe is with your emotions. It is the thought and feeling of whatever we want that creates reality. To create that reality, we must harness our emotions to imprint the thought into our subconscious mind; it also makes us start to vibrate on a frequency to attract the good things we want, all of us. However, it is important to note that both positive and negative emotions affect the Law of Attraction, so be careful that the emotions you have are positive, excited, joyful, and anticipatory, and not fearful, angry, or desperate. .
With consistent use, these techniques have been used successfully by other people in other areas of their lives to attract what they wanted. They can be so helpful in attracting women and anything else you desire to yours.