You want to get your ex girlfriend back, and you want to get her back fast. But are you really willing to do whatever it takes to get her back? Are you really ready to dig and fight to get your girlfriend back?
Time to face it: Relationships can suck. So when you find a girl you really love, it’s hard to let her go. But after a breakup, it sometimes seems like you don’t have much of a choice in the situation. What else are you supposed to do if your girlfriend says she doesn’t want to be with you anymore? You have to let her go, right? WRONG. You can get your ex-girlfriend back. You just have to know what to do and what to say for her to listen to you. And you have to be willing to do it.
So, we need to get this straight right now: If you want your ex girlfriend back, it’s time to admit it. And it’s time to commit to doing whatever it takes to get her back. That actually means getting on with this weather and doing the hard work. It means putting yourself out there so you can really get your ex girlfriend back.
Ok, now that you know, what do you do? The first thing is to really look at the situation as it is now. How long has it been since the breakup? Do you really know what caused it? Was there anything you regret doing in the relationship that you would be willing to change if it meant you could get your ex girlfriend back? Do you know if your girlfriend is dating someone else right now? Once you know the answers to these questions, you can formulate a plan to get her back. But you have to get the job done here, that way when you finally talk to your girlfriend, she won’t sound desperate or like you’re saying whatever you can think of to get her to come back to you.
Of course it’s hard to admit your mistakes. And it’s even harder to admit them to your ex-girlfriend. But if you know you love her and you want your ex girlfriend back, that’s what you’ll have to do. Once you have the outline for her, it’s time to write her a letter. Be brief but honest and tell her that you understand you weren’t the best boyfriend you could be. But don’t beg to get it back. Just tell him that you’re okay with it the way it is. Soon, your girlfriend will call you and she will want to talk. Then it’s up to you to tell him the things you’ve been thinking about. Really open up to her and be honest. That is the best chance you have to get your ex girlfriend back.