As a modern man, there are a number of things that you will need to do to get a girlfriend. The two most important tips on how to get a girlfriend is to have a job and a house of your own. What women want is a man with a job and a man who has her own place.
If you meet a woman and both of you are attracted to each other, if you don’t have a job, you will most likely lose out. If you are actively looking for a job due to her starting a new career or saying goodbye to the current economy, a woman may give you a shot and date you. If a month goes by while you two are dating and she sees that you’re just lazy and don’t want to work, she’ll leave you. It is a fact of nature that women look for men who can support them. Finding a man to support a family and herself is a natural instinct in a woman, whether she realizes it or not. Congrats if you have a girlfriend, just keep trying to find a job and let her know what your future plans are so it looks like you have ambition.
Another tip on how to get a girlfriend is to have your own place. Imagine that the two of you are having a romantic dinner. After dinner, the two of them head to the bar area and sit by a romantic fireplace with comfortable seating for patrons. They are both having a drink after dinner. The conversation flows wonderfully. The two look into each other’s eyes, a long kiss ensues.
The two share more conversation and both smile and flirt. The kisses get more intense after your second martini. They are both holding hands. Both hands begin to wander. She doesn’t mind if your hands get playful. Her hands begin to wander. Neither of you feel like someone else is in the bar area as you are both so focused on each other. Then it happens.
She asks to come back to your house. (Insert the sound of a record piercing the ear.) A million thoughts run through her mind. Finally you ask if the two of you can go back to her house. She tells you that you can’t. The reason she can’t is that her roommate has relatives from out of state. She wonders why you two can’t go back to her house. Do you really want to tell her that you still live with your parents? What will she think of you? You know what she will think of you. She will think you are an immature loser. You decide to lie and tell him that it’s ironic that your roommate’s parents are also in town for a visit.
As a guide to getting a girlfriend will point out, you might get away with it this time, but you can’t keep lying forever. It’s easier to have a job and live in your own house. Just think if you had lived in your own house how your night would have turned out.